We had the good fortune of connecting with Ryan Boylston and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Ryan, what’s one piece of conventional advice that you disagree with?
“Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life.”

Indeed, that sentiment is one we encounter frequently. We offer it as advice to recent graduates as though it encapsulates the entirety of career wisdom. It finds its way onto motivational prints, bumper stickers, and encouraging notes. It even finds its place in commencement speeches. I suspect it might even adorn a few decorative cushions here and there.

However, does this cherished counsel truly hold merit? Will pursuing a career rooted in profound passion truly transform one’s entire life into a perpetual tropical getaway?

I have reservations about that notion. In reality, while adoring one’s occupation and recognizing the laborious aspect coexist, it’s important to avoid idealizing the former excessively.

Allow me to elucidate — adoring your vocation and confronting challenges in the process are not mutually exclusive. Here are four observations that dismantle this somewhat misleading maxim.

Work Contrasts Play
My personal affinity for my professional endeavors is undeniable, and I consider myself fortunate to derive income from them. Nonetheless, this does not preclude my recognition that, on most occasions, I’d prefer sipping cocktails with companions over meeting deadlines.
Distinguishing between work and leisure is crucial. Work entails exertion and dedication to meet financial responsibilities, while leisure is centered around amusement and delight. There might be instances where your daily routine is infused with moments of joy and enthusiasm. However, this doesn’t equate to an entire career characterized by ease and relaxation.

Introducing the pressure of deadlines and the necessity of financial stability is what differentiates a job from other pursuits. Unlike leisure, work isn’t always intrinsically desired; it is a necessary obligation. Inevitably, when what you adore transforms into your profession, you might find your ardor somewhat diminished.

Ideal Passions Aren’t Always Viable Careers
Let’s reflect on childhood aspirations. Recollect the moments when adults would inquire about your desired career path as you grew older. Do you recall your responses? Personally, I would declare my intention to become an avian creature.
Undoubtedly, nurturing passions, harboring interests, and nurturing ambitious dreams are laudable. However, adoring a pursuit only represents one half of the equation. The reality of financial demands necessitates engaging in avenues that provide a stable and satisfactory livelihood.

Consider the example of a proficient violinist or a consummate video game player. Such talents are indeed remarkable. Yet, it’s evident that these fields are specialized and exclusive, even for the exceptionally gifted. While identifying one’s passion might be accomplished, the fact remains that devotion alone isn’t financially sustaining.

Imperfection Persists Across All Professions
Numerous individuals are genuinely enamored with their chosen vocations. Nonetheless, it’s vital to avoid idealizing these circumstances as idyllic.
Nearly every role carries its own set of less favorable tasks or obligations that lack intrinsic appeal. You might harbor profound affection for your profession a considerable majority of the time. Yet, there are bound to be aspects associated with it that you find considerably less enticing.

You might abhor the process of tracking incoming invoices or dread the quarterly board meetings. Perhaps even the monthly ritual of completing expense reports might evoke a sense of aversion. Whatever the case, it’s a universal truth that even within roles characterized by enjoyment, certain components are far from gratifying.

Allow me to reassure you — this sentiment is not unique. I wouldn’t be surprised if even professional beer tasters grapple with paperwork they’d rather avoid, not to mention the subpar beer samples. Such situations are inescapable.

Passion Directly Impacts Effort
Passion for one’s occupation is an admirable quality. It not only ensures a consistent income but also imparts a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment at the close of each workday. However, this sentiment isn’t cultivated by mere coasting.
Embracing your professional pursuit wholeheartedly demands diligent effort. It’s an inherent inclination to derive pleasure from activities in which we excel. Achieving proficiency in your role necessitates investing substantial time and effort.

Oftentimes, it’s not just the work itself that is gratifying; it’s the gratification and sense of accomplishment derived from excelling in that role. This outcome invariably requires persistence and dedication, occasionally extending work hours into late evenings. It’s a continuous cycle.

The phrase “Do what you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life” is a well-intentioned adage. However, it can inadvertently evoke discouragement and a sense of guilt among individuals who genuinely cherish their careers yet find themselves exhausted by day’s end. Rest assured, experiencing the fulfillment of a job while acknowledging its challenges is entirely typical.

Of course, unless you find employment as a full-time puppy snuggler — in which case, I believe complaints would be unwarranted. In our bustling South Florida market, success thrives on the synergy of ardor and diligent labor.

Can you give our readers an introduction to your business? Maybe you can share a bit about what you do and what sets you apart from others?
We are all about people at 2TON. From day one, we have remained committed to hiring full time salaried team members, No outsourcing and no contractors. We are fully committed to our team members, and they are fully committed to our clients.

Any places to eat or things to do that you can share with our readers? If they have a friend visiting town, what are some spots they could take them to?
We’d hit the beach (relax or paddle board). We’d hit the everglades (hiking or biking)
We’d hit Atlantic Avenue in Delray Beach for food and fun

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My wife has always believed in me – even when things were tight and uncertain, she encouraged me to push forward.

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