We had the good fortune of connecting with Sreshtha Tewari and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Sreshtha, we’d love to hear more about how you thought about starting your own business?
I started my coaching business because I always wanted to help and motivate other persons. At first I thought about volunteering at my former high school. However, something within me was driving me to focus on women.

One of my friends was studying with the Woman School and I inquired about it. I took their program and became a Wholeness Coach. After that certification, I ended up meeting Annie Lalla, a Love Coach.

Annie was teaching all the things I believed but was afraid to say about our emotions. She taught it with so much conviction and confidence that it truly inspired me. I thought, “can you actually make a living teaching on the things you believed at heart”? So I joined two programs in which she was one of the Facilitators.

As a result of working with her and studying her method of coaching, I accidentally (or maybe it was divine intervention), recognized my twin flame. As I continued to work on myself, my relationship with this person changed.

Due to the tremendous turmoil and pain I felt from that relationship which completely changed after my learnings from Annie, I wanted to help women struggling in love. Love is something we diminish as not being worthy of attention, care or even monetary investment. We think it’s silly for an adult woman to genuinely love a man or pursue an enriching relationship. We mask our heartfelt desires with disempowering beliefs such as, “all men are bad’, or ‘they only want one thing”, or “all of them are cheaters”. When, if we really connected to our inner voice and truth, it will speak of wanting to experience deep soul love without shame or judgement.

As my relationship with my twin flame continued to change, I worked backwards to figure out what I was doing differently that was creating the positive change. With this introspection, I discovered how much power we have in love and I wanted to help other women who were struggling. And so, mostly through intuition and my own life experience, I became an Emotional Intelligence Love Coach.

Alright, so let’s move onto what keeps you busy professionally?
Certainly! I help successful career women and entrepreneurs over 35 magnetize soul love. I am really passionate about this for two reasons: Firstly, I always hated knowing women were being mistreated in relationships. I hosted a YouTube series on mental and emotional abuse in order to help women be aware of what was acceptable in relationships.

As a result of hosting this series, I understood what gets a woman into these relationships and also, the ticket for leaving – your self esteem and worth.

Secondly, we believe soul love is as is described in movies. Someone you perceive as handsome, who can provide you with financial stability and give you a good life. This leads us into a check box dynamic with someone, and then we get upset when they don’t live up to expectations.

However, we have to understand what drives our beliefs in love and the partner we are drawn to. Believe it or not, if you got married in your 20s or early 30s, what drove the partner you selected is most likely the love you didn’t get from one of your parents. What happens is we unconsciously seek someone out, who will treat us the same way that parent treated us and hurt us in the exact same way. Our unconscious plea, is for this person to make the heartache we felt from that parent whole. Only this doesn’t happen.

We also feel a level of comfort from seeking out that partner because we have coded all the mistreatment we received as ‘safe’ and ‘what love looks like”. What happens next is we constantly try to please that partner until one day we realize, it is not going to change. At this point, with probably decades of hurt and sadness hidden behind her smile, a woman also has to deal with contemplating divorce.

We don’t understand the shame and pain a woman feels when contemplating divorce. The ambitious woman can actually feel like a failure…And this is why successful women can stay so long in unhappy marriages. They are groomed to believe that they are not trying hard enough and there must be something else you can do.

According to Annie Lalla, every relationship is schooling and leaving that relationship is like a graduation, once you have learned your lessons. So I tell my clients, the important thing is to leave the relationship with all the value you got from it. Understanding your worth and what you deserve has tremendous value and, is one of the most powerful gifts the wrong partner can give you.

There are also other psychological dynamics that drive you to thinking you are in a soul relationship such as trauma bonding (eg meeting someone after losing a loved one).

As I started to map love and relationships, I became excited as I started to figure out the formula for a truly nourishing relationship. Additionally, having recognized my twin flame, I gained a different level of appreciation for soul love having been disenchanted by it for most of my life.

The bottom line is you can find a partner and have a good life while you are yearning for something much deeper inside. Society will judge you for this. The important thing is to keep following your intuition and soul’s guidance. All your answers are within.

Experiencing soul love is a most nourishing, divine experience. It has the propensity to completely uplevel your entire life as you understand how to love in a most freeing way.

What sets me apart is that I have experienced my own twin flame journey and have been able to marry soul love experiences with psychology. Spirituality and psychology speak to the same thing, just in different languages. As such when I teach, I speak to both, having studied science in University.

Being deeply empathetic, my heart also goes out to women struggling in love and particularly in twin flame relationships going through separation. There is nothing that can describe the pain of twin flame separation. If I can do anything to help them, I certainly want to. I think being a Love Coach is a very auspicious way to connect broken love connections in the world. At heart, I’m really excited to create and bring more of the frequency of love into the world. Energetically, this has a lot of transformative power.

Speaking about my twin flame relationship was not easy. In fact no one knew about it before I started sharing on it. I asked my Business Coach at the time if to go into it and she told me just talk about love and not twin flames. Of course that advice came because she did not understand twin flames. In fact, if you haven’t experienced it, you won’t understand it and that ‘s ok.

Speaking about my actual journey is deeply vulnerable for me and of course I didn’t want to hurt him either. I remember having a conversation with him, telling him that if he saw a post where I was seemingly mad or upset for something he did, that the intention was not to hurt him, but to help other women know I understand what they are going through. Thankfully, he understood (at that time he didn’t know we were twin flames, but he understood as a Love Coach I would have to share my story).

The lesson I learned though is that I am here to help other people. By sharing my life, hurt, love and struggles I met other people on Twin Flame journeys. I love hearing their experiences and I love that I am able to help them. I never want anyone to feel how I felt. The emotional turmoil can be debilitating. I get a lot of joy from being able to help these women.

I believe in continuous education, am always learning and am currently studying for a certification in Quantum Journeys Hypnosis.

I would want to world to know that if you have a desire on your heart for love, it is calling you and you deserve it. It is not shameful to seek true love, we came here to experience love in human bodies. You can’t experience love this way in the heavens. If you are looking to magnetize in soul love or you are on a twin flame journey, know it is completely possible. It is important to believe you are deserving, you are worthy, you are chosen, circumstances can change and the universe is always working in your favour…because it is!

If you had a friend visiting you, what are some of the local spots you’d want to take them around to?
In Miami I love the Bal Harbour Shopping area. One of the restaurants there has a delicious Salmon Burger. I love looking at the boats and being close to water. Water is actually very good for grounding and healing. The Biscayne Bay area is also really nice.

I also love the beaches. Sitting and being on the beach actually relaxes our nervous system which is key for calling in true love.

For shopping, definitely Aventura Mall and Swap Shop for cheaper finds.

Shoutout is all about shouting out others who you feel deserve additional recognition and exposure. Who would you like to shoutout?
I would really like to recognize Annie Lalla for where I am today. Meeting her completely changed my life.

Annie is filled with so much love, compassion, understanding and joy for the human experience. I feel that she truly sees and values the heart of a person, and is always seeking their highest good without shame, blame or make wrong.

I’ve studied coaching from a lot of people. However Annie’s methods, tools and delivery always resonated the most with me. On top of that, I believe she unknowingly helped me to recognize my twin flame. This recognition has brought so much understanding into my life. I completely appreciate knowing her, working with her and all the peace she has brought to my life.

Annie is the reason I became a Love Coach.

Website: https://www.purposefullypassionate.com

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