Parenting conversations: having a positive impact

Our community is made up of brilliant artists, creatives and entrepreneurs, but many of them are also dedicated parents and so we asked them an in port at question: If you are a parent, what do you think is the most important thing you’ve done as a parent in terms of the impact on your children?

The most important thing that I’ve done as a mom for my kids is that they have grown up knowing that I am a working mom. I went back to work when both my son and daughter were only 5-6 weeks old. This was very difficult at the time, but I have set an example for them as a working mom and it makes me very proud that they look up to me for this. I have been able to control my schedule in a way that I am home most nights for dinner and bedtime and I am there for as many school events that I can be there for. They don’t resent me for working. They see that I am a leader in the community for what I am doing and they are proud of me. Read more>>

Definitely being multilingual. I am a firm believer in the importance of language and am convicted that speaking multiple languages is a huge asset. As the proud Papa of two young girls—Esmeralda (5) and Sabine (14 months)—this is an asset I’ve always wanted to impart to them from birth. I grew up in New York speaking only French to my two French parents and much of my family. I am also fairly proficient in several other languages. This has opened many doors for me and been a huge value-add in my life. I now speak to both of my daughters exclusively in French. Even at their young ages, I can see and feel the enormous benefits to them of being multilingual. Read more>>

I am a mother of one, I have a daughter. I believe the most impact I have had on my daughter is allowing her to see certain mistakes I made to let her know that I am not perfect. So she don’t resent me later thinking I was perfect. I apologize when I am wrong. I allow her to have a voice by expressing how she feels, instead of having her grow up thinking she does not have a voice. I want her to grow up and not think her voice does not matter. I also allow her to walk in her own identity rather than live through my childhood traumas. I want her to know as she navigates through life, mommy will always hold her hand and not control her path of life. Read more>>
