We had the good fortune of connecting with Olivia Dydyna and we’ve shared our conversation below.
Hi Olivia, is there a quote or affirmation that’s meaningful to you?
“Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it”
I became very skeptical in college rejecting anything that wasn’t science. During this time I also lost my connection to spirituality and felt like a victim with no control over my life. It’s like I rejected all parts of me that were mystical and magical in order to fit into society’s box. I wanted so deeply to belong that I dimmed my light in order to fit in.
This began to shift once I learned that there were people who wanted more out of life and were successfully living a life they dreamed of. And so I began to step into my power by stepping into fear. This fear of the unknown can be paralyzing but the truth is, there is so much magic in the unknown. I began to see life differently when I became friends with uncertainty.
While I continue to surrender to life and welcome the unknown, I have a deep knowing that magic is real. It’s real because I started believing in me. And that my love, is the real magic.
Alright, so for those in our community who might not be familiar with your business, can you tell us more?
I created my coaching business Be Sexessful because I was tired of disconnected sex. Why was the most intimate moment with a person leaving me feeling so disconnected?
As I kept asking questions I started to see that there’s a bigger question I should be asking.
“Why are we so disconnected?”
Through the last few years I have firsthand experienced my own fear of being vulnerable. Of being seen – of seeing myself. Not wanting to see ourselves at our worst makes sense but sometimes we don’t even want to see ourselves at our best – how f$&@!d up is that?
And in my search for more connected sex I found that we all just want to connect more to ourselves. To feel more confident in our body, to get what we desire, and to experience ecstasy and pleasure without shame or fear. And in this journey towards connection you end up having better sex because ultimately, you become the best you.
• The you that shines even when others might talk sh!t
• The you that loves without worry of getting hurt
• The you that STILL loves you unconditionally when you fail
• The you that will choose to stay true to you throughout the discomfort
• The you that knows you need to do the work and actually does it
And so you may ask, what’s the key to Be Sexessful?
Well my love, it’s to stay connected even when every part of you wants to disconnect. So whether it’s in sex or life, staying connected to you is not an action but rather a way of being. And that is my wish for everyone: to do less and be more, you.
Any places to eat or things to do that you can share with our readers? If they have a friend visiting town, what are some spots they could take them to?
4:20 Yoga Saturdays at Space Park is an absolute vibe. The community feels and music are part of the reason miami is still my home.
Happy hour at Suviche in wynwood. Get the passion fruit chilcano for a little refresher as well as the Suvama ceviche.
Sundays at south pointe park for sunset. Get the local Miami Beach experience with music, meditation and so much connection.
Shoutout is all about shouting out others who you feel deserve additional recognition and exposure. Who would you like to shoutout?
I celebrate Morgan Field for creating the magic circle and all the lovely beings that took part in my journey of expansion. Over 2 years ago I didn’t know my purpose or gifts.
Today I
• Channel information from spirit/guides/higherself
• See beyond the illusion of my mind
• Continue to choose to step into my power
• Trust my intuition
Anyone can be magical, you just have to believe 🥲🔮💖
Website: www.besexessful.com
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